What the devil is going on here?!

"Just I guess why its better to wait til marriage and all ?"

Ok, well, I was raised as a Christian in a very Christian environment (pretty much exclusively so) so for a long time it was just what you did. Side note: here’s a post detailing my spiritual beliefs now.

However, as I got older I actually examined why God would put such a rule in place and why I should follow it. This is what I found if both of you wait ‘til marriage:

  • No risk of STDs
  • Unplanned pregnancy is less of an issue/you’re in a better position to raise a child.
  • Sex is literally the closest you can ever be to anyone.
  • It is the physical expression of love.
  • Therefore, think of what you are giving this person you want to spend forever with if they are the only person to have that part of you.
  • Furthermore, think of what it means to have split that with several other people. (insert horcrux reference)
  • There is no baggage/jealousy from past sexual relationships
  • There is no insecurity about someone having more experience
  • You both grow together and strengthen your relationship through this shared, new experience. It’s like physically asserting your marriage.
  • And you also don’t know if the sex is bad - or rather you can assume you started bad but you’re bad together and it just means more practice (yay!).

That’s some of the major thoughts I had. Keep in mind this is my personal opinion and things that I would like for myself. You may read this and think that you don’t care about some of these points. But to me waiting makes a lot of sense.

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Waiting ‘til marriage to have sex is not absurd or archaic. It’s really simple and romantic. I just want the person I marry to have all of me, in every way, like no one else has, forever.

Offended About Sam’s “New Christian” Speech.

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I was so happy about the fact that Glee was representing a Christian and then 10 minutes later I was disappointed. Not so much by Joe. Though his views on sex (specifically “bringing you closer to God”) were rather ignorant.

But it was Sam that spat in the face of the message. It’s 5:30AM so I won’t break down Sam’s argument point by point but it was just completely terrifying to think that I am relying on this representation of Christianity and then they go and do this. I have actually been let down because I know people will buy into this. People LOVE finding excuses to behave like everyone else and this is like petrol near and open flame.

Firstly, Sam quotes Biblical passages out of context - Leviticus is in the old testament; were rules specific to Jews; many scholars are convinced the majority of those rules were because they were unsanitary at the time (i.e. infection from tattoos, harmful bacteria in pork and shellfish). But besides any Biblical implications it was just incredibly sad to hear him say “there’s no way a dude’s gonna be able to resist.” Are men supposed to think so little of themselves? That they just do not have the strength to resist? I am personally offended at that notion. What’s more, the idea that no guy can resist is pretty much the root idea at the heart of rape culture. That sort of thinking is WHAT IS WRONG WITH THE WORLD.

He mentioned things like they didn’t have the internet - which makes me think he’s saying porn is okay - and they didn’t have short skirts. But you know what else they didn’t have? Women’s rights. Women were actually considered property to a lot of people back then. You don’t think their total lack of power would make resisting temptation hard? The fact that men could get away with things like adultery but women were killed? Objectification was much worse back then because it wasn’t even called out. So…what was your point again?

And then the line “you have to decide if you want to get closer to God or closer to her”… Well, that is just fundamentally wrong in every way. And, like, thanks so much for basically presenting impressionable youths with an ultimatum of abandoning their faith or having sex getting closer to someone. In fact, from my perspective getting closer to God and her are in the same direction - a.k.a. respecting her and yourself enough to wait and building a strong relationship that doesn’t rely on sex as glue (try not to take that as a generalisation). I mean, he could have meant physically closer but emotionally closer is still implied.

I mean, I respect this plot isn’t over yet (sidenote: yay for multi-episode story archs!) and Joe himself hasn’t adandoned his faith, thus destroying one of the best characters TV could have - except for Sam on Smash who beats Joe because he is a gay Christian which is pretty much the rarest species there is whilst being essential for bridging the religion-gay conflict. But his actions and discussion with Quinn support this screwed up view.

FIX YOUR SHIT, GLEE!

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Ha! I love these ads! It’s very clever but most of all it shows a BIG reason why I will be waiting until marriage (and why it makes so much sense) and hopefully finding someone who has done the same. This seems really gross to me. There’s more to it than that of course but I won’t get into it right now.

END OF LIVEBLOG!

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UGH so beautiful! SO MANY EMOTIONS!

I do have one thing to say though. I don’t like how people are going “Klaine FUCKED” and “Finchel FUCKED”. Like, I think the point is that they tried to earnestly portray couples MAKING LOVE not just having a FUCK.

Which, though that is a positive example of a first time, is still condoning the pre-marital sex which is not something I agree with obviously. I just think the issue was not tackled properly and that the overall message was very much pro-sex where I think they should have been portraying both abstinence and this.

“How do you expect to convey the human experience to an audience when you haven’t even opened yourself up to one of humanity’s most basic and primal ones?”

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I have a BIG problem with this whole viewpoint that they’ve promoted in this episode. It’s not acceptable.

For one, the answer to Artie’s question is ACTING. You convey that by ACTING! THAT’S SORT OF THE POINT! By this experience-begets-performance logic an actor needs to murder someone before portraying a murderer if they wish to be convincing.

But my main issue is the fact that Artie just nonchalantly pressured his friends to have sex for the first time and the first thought both Blaine and Rachel so obviously have is one of insecurity. In my mind, for this episode to be a true success, one of these couples should have waited. Preferably ’til marriage but I would have accepted until after they weren’t in the mindset of the episode’s issues.

For someone of my moral beliefs I feel like this episode set some bad examples. But some good ones too…

Have we noticed someone HAS to be at LEAST provocatively suggesting sex if not actually having it in every music video? It's a prerequisite.

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“Every 7 seconds? That’s a fantasy”.

 ”Daydream Deceiver”.

And if you think about it realistically, when has anything been able to be applied this generally to an entire gender? I mean, I am offended someone would think this about me but other men would try and insist that they think about sex with more frequency and find it impressive.

What’s more, when men think about sex it’s not necessarily and erotic thing. We are often just musing over something rather than mentally screwing someone.

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"Pineapple sex wax."

Charlie’s Angels

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Mi Goreng noodles are seriously the sex. I love them so much (eating them right now).

I think the reason that they didn’t have all of “My Cup” in Glee’s New York episode is because it is REALLY suggestive…

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got you in the palm of my hand
wanna put something hot in you
so hot that you can’t stand

gonna take you to my lips
empty out every last drop
so thirsty for what’s in you baby
that i can’t stop

Random Fact About Me #19

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061. I’ve never been kissed/kissed someone.

062. I’ve never been on a date.


063. I’ve never been in a relationship.


064. All of the above doesn’t bother me.


To me a relationship is a big deal. Not to mention it takes up your attention. I don’t don’t take it lightly and I hate this pop culture expectation that we HAVE to have a boy/girlfriend and we just burn through people like accessories. But I am a hopeless romantic so I definitely want those things…it’s weird. I guess haven’t found the right person…

065. I’m waiting ‘til marriage to have sex.


It is a God thing. It’s my strong belief that sex is a gift to share with one person. Can you imagine the incredible connection you’d form with the person you want to spend the rest of your life with? I think it’s worth it. Even if I didn’t believe in God.

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KLAINE AFTER HOURS

Enjoy!

(Warning: Mature Content, You’re probably gonna want to use headphones)

OH MY GOD ASAJHDJFSJDHFJH

(use headphones if you have people near you… and.. well… if you want to experience it in a deeper way OMG WHAT AM I SAYING AKJSNJHBDF)

BRB GRABBING MY HEADPHONES

hmmm…

welp

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OH GOD I AM DYING

OH MY GOD I CANNOT BREATHE

OH MY WORD DON’T MAKE ME LAUGH I’M PISSING! AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH!

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I don’t care what anyone says, Glee is one of the most important shows to ever air.

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candidlycara:

It’ll go down in history as a revolutionary show that not only changed perceptions but changed television and society as we know it. 

I would have loved for Glee to have been around when I went to high school, I think it could have really helped me come to terms with some things faster, I think it would have helped a lot of people I know who were struggling with themselves. But I’m happy that it’s here now.

You know, I’m not unrealistic, and I can see how some people would be put off by Glee, but you can’t completely discredit a show that has done so much to help kids accept who they are, to promote self expression, to constantly be bringing forth issues that need to be discussed, such as; safe-sex, religious tolerance, mental illness, bullying, and homophobia (just to name a few.)

And yes, it is a show about breaking into song- but it’s so much more than that. It’s about overcoming obstacles, it’s about family, unity, loving others and being true to the people who stick by you, all blended in a beautiful mix of humor and heart.

I love Glee with every fiber in my being.

Being a Gleek has made me a better person.

I love you Cara. You have are an enlightened individual.

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